Being a garden loner is harder than it seems!!
Could I have a bit of advice please? I have always enjoyed gardening both flowers and vegetables. I read, chat and listen to as much as I can...I have always gardened a bit on the loner side. My husband never seemed too interested in it and that was alright as I could design plant, replant and grow as I liked. Now a colleague of his has gotten into the spirit of gardening and now hes got the gardening bug! Im not sure how to handle the shared decision making process now! Im stubborn i know! I want to share the experience but its always been the thing I could have control over...having 2 children w special needs, being a stay at home mom there hasnt been much to have a say over as life has thrown us around the block a bit chaoticly! Maybe its deeper than the flowers and veges...im not sure..im not trying to be selfish but I feel like I am! Just looking for some encouragement and although our personalities are greatly different..his style is very organized strategic and measured to the t! Im a bit whimsy and where the bulbs fall is where they grow kid of gal! It may seem frivolous but it is my current challenge and I'm not sure how to face it!!